tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post4300465822554350201..comments2023-07-05T16:36:57.739+02:00Comments on Kati's Krabbels: Fighting your own battle and comparing your lifeKatihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08733636389772504960noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-41028629489033392762014-07-25T22:09:55.824+02:002014-07-25T22:09:55.824+02:00think a lot of folks lose the plot of their own li...think a lot of folks lose the plot of their own lives cos we're encouraged to compare ourselves to others all the time in other senses... <i>am i doing as well as i should compared to such and such, is my car not too old/rusty? what will the neighbours/my parents/my friends think? are my kids doing well at school, are they at the right level compared to the National Average {the fuck?!} </i>... <br /><br />it's so important to go back to your <b>Self</b>, like Marja said in the first post... most of us have lost the plot of our own lives a long time ago, comparing what we have {or don't have...} all the time...<br /><br />let it go, find your own voice, your own boundaries, stick to them... <b>if not now, when?!</b>Daan https://www.blogger.com/profile/03603405832364381255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-17549892438580479972014-07-25T16:29:44.637+02:002014-07-25T16:29:44.637+02:00Thanks again T I will loom for that book ❤️Thanks again T I will loom for that book ❤️Katihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08733636389772504960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-61247824626521364192014-07-24T19:49:21.355+02:002014-07-24T19:49:21.355+02:00No problem always love your blogposts and this one...No problem always love your blogposts and this one spoke to me. I think you should. It's called "Why Some Positive Thinkers Get Powerful Results". I'm not a religious person, a lot of this book was. But once I looked beyond the faith I enjoyed it. <br />I get that. Life sure is a roller coaster! Like I said sweetie really hope the mindfulness helps 😘Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08084944140870739536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-56610715004441965202014-07-24T16:45:02.585+02:002014-07-24T16:45:02.585+02:00Thank you for reading T and I will try and find th...Thank you for reading T and I will try and find that book. I always thought I was a positive person as well but sometimes things happen in your life and you put it all away and then one day it gets too much, I guess. Thanks! <3 xxxKatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08733636389772504960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-64317730217295280162014-07-24T16:36:18.172+02:002014-07-24T16:36:18.172+02:00First of all what you wrote about the friends and ...First of all what you wrote about the friends and families of the victims was so beautiful and made my eyes water. <br />It's all so tragic & indeed without reason. <br /> <br />I compare myself to others too sometimes even though I know I shouldn't. Perspective is good but not comparing... <br />The 'mindfulness' was inspiring! <br />I've read a book on positive thinking by Norman Vincent Peale. Maybe it's not the same but still it's about working on yourself. It's not easy but important. I'd say we've all got things we wanna get better at. I've considered myself a pretty positive person before reading this book but when I do get down it hits me hard. The reason I read it was I'd like to minimalize the 'rut'... Hope mindfulness releases some of your stress ❤️Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08084944140870739536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-19378609845489004772014-07-24T15:06:23.137+02:002014-07-24T15:06:23.137+02:00Dank je wel, zeer herkenbaar allemaal. jij ook ste...Dank je wel, zeer herkenbaar allemaal. jij ook sterkte! <br />X KatiKatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08733636389772504960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646807530494008356.post-85947916689511542002014-07-23T22:51:43.428+02:002014-07-23T22:51:43.428+02:00Nee, je kunt zeker geen pijn en verdriet vergelijk...Nee, je kunt zeker geen pijn en verdriet vergelijken. Ik weet wat je bedoelt, ik ben getrouwd met een man met een heleboel autistische kenmerken en ik was ook op. Ik ben wel een week weggegaan, van de ene dag op de andere, zonder verder overleg met hem, wel een mededeling, en heb de tijd gebruikt om voor mezelf eens wat dingen op een rijtje te zetten.<br />De komende tijd wordt er niet aan "ons" gewerkt, maar aan mij. Ik was mezelf gewoon kwijt en wil door de gesprekken met een counselor weer terugvinden, wat in de loop van ons huwelijk is verdwenen. En dat voelt goed voor mij. Ik kan niet leren hoe om te gaan met de situatie, als ik zelf niet eens meer weet wie ik ben. Hij is het er gelukkig mee eens, en ziet ook wel de problemen waar we tegenaan lopen, maar ja, verandering is zeer moeilijk.<br />Sterkte met alles!MarjaKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10760597740075412065noreply@blogger.com